DEADLY LINE

The world is a place with different kinds of people, different lifestyles and different cultures. Coming back to where you are there are different kinds of people you come across from time to time.

Each one of them has his own way of life, his own challenges and his own strength.

But among these people there are those that are at the verge of collapsing.

Sometimes what makes people collapse is not the issue of money - many will think it's money but there are those that have the money but are about to give up.

It's just a line between sanity and losing it.

Someone might be at the edge of losing it and you might be the last hope that he is holding on to - when you decide to take the wrong turn the person will be left on a lone ground that is barely holding.

When you miss that person, the time and effort that should have been put by you to make that person still stand to the point of being strong again you will need more than that in order to save that person.

When someone broken is trying to lean on you, try to be a strong wall that can hold out because you might be the last trusted person standing at that point where if care is not taken he will lose it all and it will be difficult for him to be restored or he might even be lost forever.

Don't always watch out for yourself but rather try to be conscious of who leans on you or wants to lean on you then make the time in order to be able to be that wall - for someone to lean on you means you have what it takes to hold out.

Those who have lost it and are being criticized was never their intention or plan to be so in the first place. They also once had a beautiful picture about themselves. It is just some circumstances and negligence by others that brought out the worst in them.

Had someone given them the attention they need, the support they need and the love they need they wouldn't have crossed that line. The ground would have still been standing and with time the narrative is going to change.

Nobody was born to be worse neither an item of menace - it all started at some point in time.

Never shy away from those that need your support most especially emotionally because you never can tell how risky the stage they are in at that point in time. And in any case you come across someone who has crossed the line, never be a judge because you have no idea what went down from genesis.

Finding yourself in the heat of the journey doesn’t mean you can calculate and give a narrative of what you think happened and is going on.

The best thing one can do is if you can’t help in any way don’t add to the pains and darkness the person is facing because that might be the last button that can push him into crossing that line.

Be a helper not someone who presses the wrong button.